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How it works

What you get, from free to VIP Plus

Daily matches, messages you can actually send, and checks that show who's real.

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  • Free to join
  • Free ID verification
  • Daily matches

The short version

Three things worth knowing

The full list is in the table below.

What each membership includes

Free gets you started, VIP opens up messaging and search, and VIP Plus puts you at the top of the stack.

Classic, VIP and VIP Plus compared by feature.
Classic (free) VIP VIP Plus
Messages Limited per day No limit
See who likes you Not included Included
Advanced search filters Not included Included
Chat rooms and private groups Not included Included
Exclusive matches Not included Included
Top of every match stack Not included Included

Good questions

What can I do for free?

With a free Classic membership you can build a profile, browse members, get daily matches, post updates and photos, comment, join polls and quizzes, and get ID-verified. You can send a limited number of messages a day, and you can always read and reply to messages from VIP members.

How do daily matches work?

Your matches are picked around the age range you want, who you're looking for, how close they are, how recently they were active, the kind of relationship you're after, your lifestyle and what you're into. We bring the matches; chemistry is up to you.

Planning to meet? Read our guide to your first BBW date.

What is a Super Match?

It's an add-on for VIP Plus members. Your message arrives in a bold, distinctive colour, your profile is seen first, and they can reply straight to you.

Is there an app?

The site works in any desktop or mobile browser everywhere, and you can install it on your phone's home screen. Native iPhone and Android apps are available in selected markets.

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